Please Help

Hi ladies & gentlemen

I have a sort of embarrassing problem and I would greatly appreciate some feedback. I have a libido issue that is starting to create problems in my marriage. Most people would probably assume that I am going to ask if there are herbs or natural practices that can help me increase my libido. The problem is, my libido is out of control and way to strong. It is consuming my life and creating massive amounts of tension, stress, increased heart rate and sweating, resentment and frustration, and is starting to become a full fledged depression issue. My wife does not have the same high libido as I do, and we do not have intercourse on a frequent enough level to make me feel satisfied the way I desire. I would have intercouse many times a day if I could, but this is simply not feasible in our current situation. This may sound funny but, are there any particular herbs, or herbal formulas that work to decrease the libido? I am currently taking schisandra daily, but I find that it almost makes my libido go even higher. This question is not a joke and I would greatly appreciate any feedback. My sex drive is becoming a huge burden and I would like to quiet it down a bit.

Thanks in advance

Heruvian